Don’t Want to Deal With That

Just imagine that you have gotten some of the worst news you could possibly receive.

Your spouse/partner has been killed in a car accident. While dealing with all of the emotions and heartbreak of this news, you have to slog through this devastating circumstance and take care of yourself and your family in practical ways.

You will need to find the life insurance policy that was hopefully purchased to help continue to pay your bills. You will need make changes to bank accounts and other financial accounts. You will need to be able to access your auto insurance and home owner’s insurance policies and various legal documents.

Human beings prefer to deal with things they know about and have an affinity for, or have the education and learning to be successful. If you are like many couples, it seems one of you deals with the finances of your household and one of you wants nothing to do with all that! One of you loves it, or at least doesn’t mind dealing with these types of things, and one of you really hates it.

I would propose that you may want to rethink this in your relationship. Both people should be aware of all account passwords, login information, insurance policies (especially life insurance), your last will and other legal documents. Maybe you store this in a safe in your home or a safety deposit box at the bank. Many families utilize an password application that stores everything in one place electronically. Even if one of you makes most of the banking, investment, insurance, medical and other type of life decisions, both of you should know what is happening. Even if you have separate bank accounts, be sure you can access all accounts in the case of the death of the account holder.

I have dealt with insurance customers that have lost their spouse, and are completely clueless how to move forward with everything. They have no idea what is going on with their insurance, how to pay the bills, and even how to access sorely needed funds. It can be months and months of struggle, on top of dealing with the loss of their loved one.

A very stressful situation can be made SO MUCH EASIER if you will take a couple of minutes to have a discussion about your accounts and the access needed, just in case.